. And just know this, your worth isn't based on your appearance! You are beautiful. Period. Not because of your lip-gloss shade or your expensive jeans. Not because you have on a sassy outfit and super cute new boots. Your worth is never found in your appearance, ever. You are beautiful simply because you were created in the image of God. You are a daughter of the King!
. It's the way God made them. And when you dress immodestly, it makes it super challenging for them. Time after time I've saw a girl wear a low cut shirt then complain about boys looking down their shirt. While you may have worn it because you felt you looked hot, let's be honest here, you also wore it for attention. But that's the absolute wrong attention. This goes hand in hand with our next truth.
. God gave us, as women, the gift of softness, femininity and beauty. It's our responsibility to convey those without showing our sexuality. Allow your appearance to reflect your pure and virtuous heart. Know your worth and reflect it on the outside. Your body is a gift from God, honor it as such. I love this quote by Jessica Rey "Modesty isn't about hiding ourselves, it’s about revealing our dignity". We can absolutely dress beautifully without being out of fashion or immodest. The search might be a little harder but it's not impossible. You will probably have to look past the racks they place at the front of the store but I promise it's not an impossible task.
5. Boys are not the begin all and end all
. I know this time in life is hard and confusing. You've had a lifelong circle of friends...then enter a boy. Yeow, can this shake things up. Just remember this, your friends were there before him and they'll be there after him. Let's face it, chances are you won't be marrying him. And once your relationship ends, it's your friends who will be there to pick up the pieces. So try to treat them with respect and remember it's hard on them as well to not spend as much time with you.
6. Have a servants heart
. It is so so important to love with a servants heart, to have empathy for those who are lost and hurting. After all, Jesus did say the second greatest commandment was to love your neighbors. Reaching out to others, being the hands and feet of Jesus, is one of the greatest callings we have in our faith. Not only does it show the love of Christ for the world, it's also an opportunity for us to worship God and for us to grow more like Jesus. In today's world, there is such a focus on self and it is a daily struggle to instead turn our hearts away from self. Take time. Be humble. Keep on. Love.
7. You were uniquely designed you to be YOU
. You are His perfectly perfect creation, handcrafted by the same hands that made the stars. Jesus skillfully crafted the body, mind and soul of each and every human being while she was in her mother's womb. So the next time your self-esteem is lacking or you feel not as pretty, thin, popular, etc. as the next person, just smile and thank the God who made you, died for you, and wants the best for you.
8. Honor your parents
. I know, I know. I say this and all you hear is the Peanuts teacher in your head. Blah blah blah. But this is a big one girlies! God gave one commandment to children, obey your parents. This is more than just obeying them, it's treating them like important people. It's treating them with love and respect. Sometimes we are asked to do hard things that we don't understand, don't want to do, don't feel like doing or that anger us. But remember, when we obey God we always know that He will bless us!
9. You will never be perfect
. You will never be perfect. God does not demand our perfection to get His love. Wow, isn't that a relief? God knows there is no possible way any of us could ever be perfect. Ever. But if you've put your faith in Jesus and received Him into your life then you've been declared righteous. Let's say that again, if you've received Jesus into your life you've been declared righteous! You are covered under His grace, declared righteous and are precious in His eyes and you are held in the hand of His care. You are HIS and he loves you unconditionally.
10. Guard your heart
. You are to keep your heart safe and guard it from attack. Just a quick little side note...because everyone else is doing it is not a good excuse. There is a real war going on right now over your soul. Every single day satan prowls around and looks for an opportunity to pounce on your heart. You must be a warrior princess, put on the armor of God and guard your heart against attack. You need to be on guard about the occult, sexual sin, vanity, envy, greed, sassyness, gossip, lying, anger and pride.
I'm raising a daughter in this crazy world. I won't always be there to protect her (oh how I wish I could) so I will tell her the truth. I can't change the world, but I can prepare her for it.